Mistakes your guide to success

Hello,

People make mistakes. That is okay as long as you don't intentionally did it. Mistakes are indication that there is room for improvement. The more you make mistakes the more you learn, the more you learn the closer you are to achieve your goal.

Feel free to do what you want and not worry with the outcome. As Michael Jordan said. "JUST DO IT" Do you know that he failed before he become famous. What if he quit along the way. do you think there will be Michael Jordan today?

So let us enjoy life. Let go of the stress. Be happy and comfortable finding your purpose.

Till next time.

Bernadette

Be not afraid, Have faith

Hello,

Today is Sunday. We went to the church.

Our visiting priests today is Dante Lumabas from the Philippines.

His homily is about Faith. Do not be afraid. If you are afraid you are limiting yourself to enjoy amazing miracles in life. You are missing the joy and reward of doing the unknown.

He shared his experience in Poland wherein he was asked to deliver a homily. People don't understand English . He does his homily to whatever little he knows about their language. And with the help of an interpreter he finished his homily in 5 minutes. After the homily he was surprised that people stood up and gave him a warm applause. He further hear people telling how good he was. That happened because he trust in god. He do what he was asked and put his faith. Obviously, God was with him when he stood up in front without knowing what to say.

Release your fear and enjoy life. Trust in the process.

Till next time,

Bernadette

Breathe, RELAX

Breathe, relax.

Quick and easy. Breathe and ejoy life. Do you know that a second to breath would quickly shift the direction of one's feelings. You may not notice it but it creates a better outlook.

What is happening around us doesn't matter. We can not change where and what we have but we can change everything around us in a second if we want to. WHY IS THAT? To begin with, breathe. Then RELAX, take it easy. Then focus on finding for the good and be greatful. The more good you find , the more greatful you are, the more greatful you feel, the more you feel you are living in a perfect world wherever you are.

Till next time.

Bernadette

The road to Wealth

Hello,

The road to wealth is very challenging.

Yesterday, I was happy. Today sI am down again when I received letter from creditors that they are increasing her minimum payment from 2% to 5%. I don't even know where and how to come up with a minimum payment.

However, in a moment I quickly get back and said. Where I am right now is exactly where I should be. This is the road to wealth. The journey is very challenging yet the reward is so promising. The end of the road is Ocean of unlimited abundance and prosperity.

With that I am so inspired to get back to face and embrace my daily challenge.

Till tomorrow,

Bernadette

Solid Recovery

hello,

This week was very challenging for me. I was so down but I quickly get back,

Do you want to know why?

I practice the theory of Solid Recovery by Ralph Marston.

Each setback provides an opportunity to recover. And each time you recover, you grow stronger. The route to your goal is not a straight line. There will be many times along the way when you find yourself off course.

When that happens, it can seem like your destination is unreachable. Doubt, fear and apathy will take hold if you let them.

The key is not to let them. For as hopeless as the situation may feel, there are actions you can take that will enable you to quickly get back on track.

Much of the substance of achievement is in becoming skilled at making a quick and solid recovery. Each setback gives you the chance to practice and strengthen and refine that valuable skill. Know that whatever has slowed you down can provide you with a way to move more effectively forward. Quickly get back up, and feel the new strength you've gained.

Come join me as I move forward to reach your destination.

Till next time,

Bernadette

What are you thinking

Hello,

Dale Carnegie, 1888-1955 Writer and Lecturer

Remember, happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think.

So what are you thinking?

Happiness is the foundation to survive. It is a magical feeling to handle challenge with EASE.

Do you claim happiness. How do you find happiness. Where does happiness comes from?

I am happy because I have a family, I have kids so whatever my challenge be , I can managed because I have such a HUGE WHY to be happy.


Till next time,

Bernadette

Life is an endless source of Richness

Hello,

I was so quiet in the past two days but now I am back in the game. Excited, happy, enthusiastic and having so much FUN.

Why? According to Ralph Marston, LIFE IS AN ENDLESS SOURCE OF RICHNESS. Everything that comes your way in some way or another add to that richness. I learned to embrace challenge and believe everything happens for a reason. Richness is not on the amout of money or availability of finances that I have right now but it is in my ability to be creative to produce richness with fun and joy in the midst of challenges.

Are you having fun while being challenged?

Till next time.

Bernadette

The Power of Now.

The Power of Now.

I am still down that I need help. I went to pray. I listened to the voices. I practised the mind body and soul connection.

Today, I heard the power of now.

Now is the time to connect to the universe. Now, is the time to come back and stay focus. Let go of your worries. Focus on creating income to exceeds expenses. Clear the mind with negative thoughts and fill in positive affirmation. The mind is like a computer. What you put in is what you get. Use your energy to be creative. Take action. Do not process. Feel the feeling of having that money on your hand right now.. The mind will attract exactly what you think.

Join me in my moment in the power of now.

Till next time.

Bernadette

Synchronistic events

Hello,

Today is Sunday. I went to church with my family. I am feeling better with my affirmations.

The visiting priest Fr Rizalino Valles delivered a meaningful that synchronize exactly where I am today. I feel the message was made exclusively for me, I feel god was talking to me during the mass through the priest. I attentively listened and closely watched the priest body movement that I don't want to miss anything. I approach the priest after mass to tell him how I liked his homily. .

The message goes this way. The country is currently challenged. This challenge is an occasion to come closer to god. God has been sleeping into our bones. This is an opportunity to wake him up in our body. He will wipe up your fear worry and all your negative thoughts and feelings. Call on God and he will give you PEACE.

Call mother mary. She will walk with you to reach your goal..

Have you experienced god or your divine power was talking to you.


Bernadette

MY INCOME EXCEEDS MY EXPENSES

Hi, I'm back.

I am financially challenge I have pile of bills to pay and no idea where to get money .

At times like this I pray. I asked for courage and guidance. I asked Jesus Jesus to be with me to assist me in this journey. Then I get back to work on my business. I get inspired. I am getting better working on my business.. That makes me so happy and thankful. Then during my break I listened to my inspirational CD, Prosperity Consciousness by Fredrick Lehrman. My affirmation for today is MY INCOME EXCEEDS MY EXPENSES. I feel great after saying it over and over again.

If you are on this situation, try it and let me know what happened.

Bernadette

There is tomorrow (May Bukas Pa) Part II

Hello, I am back.

The phone is not ringing. For entrepreneurs like me, that means no business , no income. Then bills in the mail continuously comes in.. Yet, I am still thankful because every day is a great day and tomorrow would be a lot better. GUARANTEED.

I don't give doubt a chance. Ther is alwasys hope. There is always tomorrow. And tomorrow will be another day. Everyday is a good day no matter what. Just BELIEVE.

Where did I get that? From my favorite filipino show The Filipino Channel entitiled MAY BUKAS PA. In english There is tomorrow. I watched the show not to be entertained but to get inspired. The boy , SANTINO, the leading character in the story said that even if you think it will not happen, just keep believing and everything will be fine. Trust in god (Divine Power ) and he will never leave you.

Do you believe that someone up there is assisting you?

Till next time,

Bernadette

There is tomorrow (May Bukas Pa)

Hello there,

There is tomorrow (May Bukas Pa)

When you give the best to the world and nothing is happening yet, I say, NO WORRY. THERE IS TOMORROW and there is always tomorrow. There is always hope, never ending hope. Today, stay focus. Trust in the process. Concentrate on what is required . Give to the world the best you can. Do not be attached to the outcome, keep moving. As you move on, evaluate why no results yet. Be creative, maybe I need to made adjustment on what I am currently doing . I will be brave to try something different. I embrace the challenge and have fun. I will stay in the game and learn from the game. The longer I stay, the better I will perform. In the end I will get results.

In Filipino, there is tomorrow means may bukas pa. This is the Filipino show that I want my kids to see every night. This is story of a boy named SANTINO who has strong faith in GOD (Divine Power). This is a good show that everyone MUST see. You will learn valuable lesson while you are being entertained. You can watched this at THE FILIPINO CHANNEL..

Want to know more with SANTINO in may bukas pa. Ask me.

Until we met again.

Bernadette

Good For you

Good For you.

Hello, I am back.

My son was playing when he accidentally bump his head into the kitchen counter. I immediately attended to him while he was crying and said. Damian, GOOD FOR YOU. You must be growing. Be thankful because you just learned a VALUABLE lesson. This is an opportunity for you to practice paying attention to simple details. The younger you start learning, the better.

I further said. Damian, mom work at home, Our home is my office. I am always at home but I am working. I will not babysit you. I will watch you but be responsible to yourself because mom will not always be at your side.

How do you treat your kids in this situation ?

Until next time,

Bernadette

Global crisis

Global crisis

I received an email from myr friend asking if I am affected with global crisis.

I said.. Absolutely..But later I said , I don’t think so. WHY?

I was born and raised in a poor family.. When she was growing up, she hate it. However, now that I am grown up. I can say that the best thing that ever happened to me is to experience living in crisis. To resist crisis will do me any good so while growing up, instead of resisting crisis, I welcomed crisis. I treated crisis as myr one and only best friend. Crisis is my companion who never left her until I finished college and got a good job and later do business. I was successful doing business plus a career until I landed to America. So,, during those years I forgot and lost crisis. Crisis was out in my equation. So now with the global crisis, I looked at it as a long lost friend trying to get united. A long and loving friend reminding me where I came from . The feeling is great to bring back exciting and challenging memories. Memories to be thankful everyday.

Personally. crisis is a temporary but meaningful slow down. Slow down to feel and smell the joyful lessons we learned in life. A time to find the seed of greatness and a chance to plant new and better seeds. I treat crisis as an opportunity to grow, expand and discover something better as I journey to the land of unlimited prosperity and abundance.

So, how about you, how do you see global crisis?

Until next time,

Bernadette

Give to the world the BEST V

Give to the world the BEST

Hi, I am back.

"Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you."

As an entrepreneur the more you give your best to the world to stretched out, the closer you are to enhance the quality of your life.. After all the work , you will then enjoy balance and freedom that everyone is wishing for.

As you begin your journey as entrepreneur, you will embrace challenges, sacrifice, pain and discomfort. You will be STRETCHED OUT like a rubber band. Watched a rubber band. Do you noticed that the more your stretch it out, the longer it takes and it changed its form dramatically.

Do you dream of balance and freedom to live to the fullest?


See you soon

Bernadette

Give to the world the best IV

Hi, I am back.

"Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you."

My husband Leonardo is the CEO and President of FOUR ACE ELECTRICAL SERVICES CORPORATION. This is what I say.

Leonardo , "Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you."
Give your best to the world means over deliver and you'll get paid even when you are sleeping.

Over deliver means provide SUPER exceptional excellent service over and beyond your customer's expectation.. Excellent service attract customers . How does it feel if customers demand your service? Instead of you finding customers to grow your business, customers will come to you .. The more customers you have the more business you make. In effect money will continuously flow into your business EASILY and EFFORTLESSLY.

Would you like to have a business with a continuous flow of money?

Until next time.

Bernadette


Damian.

Give to the world the BEST Part III

Hello, I am back.

Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you."

My eldest daughter Candyd Lace just got a full time job. On Monday June 15 will be her first day. This is what I say to her when I say

Candyd, be sincerely thankful for having a job. Feel that gratefulness with so much joy in your heart. Feeling joyfully grateful is like igniting a fire inside you to give to the world the best you can.

Why is that?

When you are IN JOY, you will show up with EASE. As you do your job, a welcoming SMILE will always be seen and heard from your voice. Sincerity in your service will be felt by your customers and also the people you work with. As a result EXCELLENT service will be DELIVERED. They will feel highly respected and feel valued. If you are a customer would it be great if you would be treated that way?

Giving the best you can to the world will put you in a position to joyfully stand out. A sincere service with a smile will give you the competitive edge to WIN.

So, where would you like to be . Would you like to WIN or LOSE?

Bernadette

Give to the world the BEST Part II

Hello, I am back.

Give to the world the best you can the and best will come back to you.

This is my message to my 2nd daughter Julie.

Julie, pay attention to your teacher when you are in class. Zipped your mouth and open your mind to received information. Participate by sharing your ideas and ask questions. Assist others who needs help. Assisting your classmates will give you the opportunity to practice and master what you learn. Learning is fun balance with discipline. At home, set aside study time to learn . Make it a point to give yourself extra homework on top of the homework the teacher is giving you. That would work to your advantage. Remind yourself to follow your daily discipline. Spend more time learning and less time watching TV.

Julie, give the best you can to learn and you will get the most of it. It is guaranteed , you will get smarter. The smarter you are , the more you feel good about yourself. You will bring joy, honor to your family. Your family would then be ten times more happy and proud of you . People around you will respect and trust you beyond your expectation. So when you grow up you will have greater chances of getting the right job you want. You can speed up your progress. You will be absolutely be happy in life.

So, are you ready to get smarter in life?

Until tomorrow.

Bernadette

Give to the world the BEST

"Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you."
by Ella Wheeler Wilcox 1855-1919, Poet and Journalist

This is my message to my kids

Damian, if you lovingly kiss mommy. Mommy will lovingly kiss you 10 times more.

Holly, doing chores with a smile creates peace, joy, and harmony in the family. The more peace and joy you have the more you can bring out the best in you. You do chores better and get it done the soonest. How does that affect you and your family. You feel great . RIGHT? When you feel great you make everybody in the family feel great too.

When you give the best you have , you will noticed MAGIC. You are a leader by example. People around you will looked up at you. The will respect you, they will admire you and they will love you. You will then inspire them. and in return you get inspired more than ten times more. WATCH, if you are inspired you work with EASE and produced results EASILY AND EFFORTLESSLY. The best part, you will continuously attract wonderful things , people and events to come to you. WOW...

How do you like that?

Bernadette

Laundry Challenge part II

Some days my kids challenge me doing the laundry. I took a loving breathe and say. It is okay. I can understand. I will only ask you to sit with me and watch me do it. As I do it pick one of small tiny and pretend you are holding a toy. Pretend you are folding your toy with EASE. Take one at a time until clothes were all folded.

I thanked my kids by saying, My beloved Julie and Holly, Thank you very much. That is great. You did an awesome job. You made my life easy. Then, they react . But mommy it is not perfect. I said NO Problem. "Imperfect Action is Better Than no Action. " Keep doing imperfect action everyday and before you knew you perfectly fold the clothes beautifully with EASE

Do you know where I learned Imperfect Action is Better than no Action. I learned that from my millionaire best friend and Business Coach Giovanna Garcia. You can visit Giovanna GArcia at Impecfectation.com


Bernadette

Laundry Challenge

Who likes doing laundry?

I am training my 2 kids Julie, 9 years old and Holly 7 years old do the laundry. Kids like their age are in the process of learning how to fold the laundry. Some days they don't feel like helping me fold the laundry and this is what I say.

Find your favorite clothes from the laundry. Then look at it and think who gave you that. Then say , I love you my clothes. Thank you to my family who gave my clothes. I will take care of you forever so I will lovingly fold and keep you in my closet with EASE.

How do you fold your laundry when you don't feel like doing it.

Till next time


Bernadette

The magic of calling name - part II

I always emphasizing to my kids the importance of remembering names and calling people by their first name. When you meet someone, say their names and shake hands and say "I'm glad to meet you." That is a baby step to win friends. The more you remember names, the more friends you have, then, the more friends you have, the closer you are connected to the world. Then the more you are connected to the world, the closer you are to achieve your purpose

Do you know that my best friend Ron White, the Memory Expert became millionaire because he can remember names at a glance. Would you like to have that skill. You can visit him at ronwhitetraining.com.

Bernadette

My favorite show

My only son Damian favorite show is HANDY MANNY. He likes the line. You break it. we fix it.

This is his favorite show because he sees his dad in the business. His dad Leonardo is the CEO and President of FOUR ACE ELECTRICAL SERVICES CORPORATION based in Sacramento CA. The phone always rings. People requesting electrician to come to their house to fix their electrical needs. After the call , his Dad Leonardo is there out to help people on their needs. My son can relate what he see on Handy Manny. You can call or visit him at his website when you need electrical services at fouraceelectrical.com

See you soon.

Bernadette

Emotional Exercise re: Thank you for the gift

Emotional Exercise re: Thank you for the gift instead of I AM SO TIRED

Mydaughter Julina said, emotion means feeling. Do you have feelings? Let us have exercise by feeling the feeling when we say Thank you for the gift as against I am so tired.

I asked Julie what do you feel when you say I am so tired? She looks drained, no energy. She is not inspiring. Then, when I say hi to her she ignored me and when I say hi again she was mean to me. Did she realized she just turned hurt her moms feelings

On the other hand, when she said Thank you for the gift. Hmmm, It is ABSOLUTELY better. I saw a tiny cute little smile hiding from nowwhere that suddenly pop up. She hug me. WOW, this time she turned on the JOY in my heart.

Do you feel what I feel? Do you like emotional exercise?

Bernadette

Thank you for the gift

Thank you for the gift.

My daughter Julina came to me and said "I AM SO TIRED". OH, I can see that. Then
I suggested, what if instead of saying You re tired, Say, I am thankful for the gift.

Julie said , What?

I said Thank you for the gift because you are healthy. You have the ability to do anything and everything you want. You get tired because you walk, ran , and play. Do you know that some people are just wishing what you can do?

Try it, instead of saying you are tired, Say I am thankful for the gift. Share me what you feel

Bernadette

Thank you AT&T UVERSE

Thank you ATT Uverse.

My big THANK YOU to AT&T Uverse because my kids can watch their favorite show over and over again anytime anywhere with ease. With the new ATT Uverse you can record and save your show while you are watching and a lot more . I upgraded to ATT Uverse because of its advanced awesome features not available in our previous provider. You may want to check it out and see it for yourself how COOL it is to have ATT Uverse.

So, because of ATT Uverse , I can work on the phone without my kids interrupting me because they are absolutely happy with ATT uverse

Try it and and find out what you are missing.


Bernadette

The magic of calling names part I

Mydaughter Holly. 7 years old is is very attentive except when I request her to do a chore. She seams not to hear anything even if my voice is so loud that the whole world can hear it. Do you know WHY? Let us see if you can guess.

Scene no 1. Can you wash the dishes?

Scene no 2. Holly, can you wash the dishes?

The first scene, I did not address her. I did not call her name.

On the second one, I addressed her by calling her name. And guess what, Holly is so quick to response. Ahh, there is magic in calling names. Do you noticed when someone calls your name. What do you do? How do you feel.

So, call people by their first name.

However, to know you better, what is your name?

Bernadette

The First Magic

Can you do magic?


SIMPLE but very POWERFUL. The first magic is the magic word THANK YOU. The key to a happy life is to appreciate every little things that you have. Always say thank you and you will have a prosperous life

To practice, I want to say THANK YOU to all of you reading my blog.

If you are coming back, Thank you again. If you connect with me and follow me on my blog. Thank you, Thank you and Thank you again. I feel great saying Thank you again and again.

Saying Thank you is like $100.00 bill that you will always want to received and say Thank you again and again .


Bernadette

Let me introduce myself

Hello everyone,

This is my first blog. I am so happy and thankful for the technology I can connect to all of you out there in the comfort of my home anytime.

By the way, My name is Bernadette. I live in Sacramento CA. I am an entrepreneur at the comfort of my home.

Want to know more about me? Then, let us connect and make friends . We have so much to learn everyday as we swim in the pool of blogging.

I will love to hear from you.


Bernadette