Friday, July 31, 2009

You have a choice

How do you feel today? Do you feel good? If you do, who made you feel that way?

No one except yourself. You feel good today because you choose to.

You have a choice.

I choose to feel good. That way, I am always in JOY as I take my daily action. Everything seems easy in spite of challenges. I handle my challenge with EASE. I still scream but I could easily get myself back to PEACE because I choose to .

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Creating Huge Positive Change By Starting Small

Do you have challenges getting started?

Do you wait till you get everything on hand to get started? Do you wait for the right time and at the right place. If you do , you are missing the GIFT for today...

If you want something, DO it now . NOW is the right time. Start today not tomorrow for tomorrow will be too late. Start small and continue tomorrow with small action one step at a time. If you missed something. No Problem because the more you missed, the more you learn. the more you learn the more you build your millionaire's educational bank account by catching life's experiences and lessons that is available for today.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change By Starting Small

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Law of Attraction - BElieve

Believe.

Do you believe in yourself? What are your beliefs. Are your belief in congruent with what you want?

Believe that you will achieve and you will? Why is that? Your belief will motivate you to get started and keep moving towards the realization of your goal.. You will feel you are always awake even if your body is sleepy. And when you sleep, you can't wait until you get up in the morning.

Believe and you will achieve.

Bernadette Velasquez

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Test Your Power: Start Small

Are you aware how powerful you are? Do you know you can move mountains? Do you?

We all do. If you are doubting, test your power. Start small. How?

If you are driving and wanting to get ahead, start focusing your mind and think that the car in front of you will give way, will move faster or change lane. As you master using your power you will be surprise that cars in front of you will keep moving to clear your way.

The more you do it, you get better and will have fun driving getting to your destination on time with ease. No pressure, no rushing.

Bernadette Velasquez

Monday, July 27, 2009

Law of Attraction - Clarity

Clarity.

To attract what you want. you must be clear on what you want.

Let us say, you are in a restaurant and you ordered chicken. Then suddenly you changed your mind, so you changed your order to pork. Then when the pork is about to be served you changed your mind and you want beef. If you are the chef how would you response to the person placing an order.

If you are not clear on what you ask , it would take longer to attract what you want or chances are you won't get it. That is why people said the law of attraction is not working for me but it is working against me.

Would you like the law of attraction to work towards you or against you?

Bernadette Velasquez

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Law of Attraction- Gratitude

Gratitude.

The magic word. Thank you.

Two simple words yet so powerful. How do you feel when you do a favor to someone and comes back and say Thank you to you ? It is awesome, isn't it? The best part of it is that, you feel like giving more everything and anything in my power.

What about it you were ignored and comes back for another favor. Do you feel excited to do another favor? Will you still give another favor? If you do, will you still be willing to give to the maximum?

Law of attraction means you will attract anything and everything you want if you know how to appreciate every little details that you received and you will continually attract what we want by simply saying Thank you from the heart.

Having said that. Thank you so much for reading my blog.

Bernadette Velasquez

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Forgiveness - releasing burden

Do you have challenges forgiving someone? How does it feel?

To forgive someone is like releasing all the heavy loads you've been carrying for some time that doesn't serve you.

Imagine yourself carrying a bagpack with heavy rocks on it everyday with the intention of throwing those rocks to the person who hurt you. Do you see yourself relax and free from moving to and from any direction you want? Absolutely not because that bag pack of rock controls you from moving freely?

So if you keep the pain, you are limiting yourself from enjoying life to the fullest. Forgive, let go, release those heavy loads of rocks and you will have an enjoyable journey of life.

Bernadette Velasquez

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

The individual human being

The information we gather everyday determines our personality. We used our sense to see pictures, hear sounds, we touch things , feel our love ones and taste variety of foods. Every emotions, idea and activity are recorded and printed in our mind . So who we are today is the the result of accumulated information and experiences we gathered through the year. And that is what we call the individual human being.

Do you know who you are as in individual human being? What have you gathered over the years? Are they working for you or against you? NOW is the time to make an inventory of your strengths and weaknesses. You may be surprised a new and better idea will instantly pop up. You may feel that an amazing opportunity has been knocking on you. You may see pictures of change that would guide to the your dreams.

Bernadette

The Will

“The will to succeed is important, but what's even more important is the will to prepare”

Success will come if you have the willingness to do what ever it takes. The starting point is the preparation, the plan of action and what action to make to get to your destination.

Right now what is it that you want to achieve. To achieve what you want , what small steps do you do to make it happen. Often time it is hard but if you have the will to start, there will always a way. You can start small and along the way you will find a way to get there. What is important is the will to start right NOW.

What is your will for today

Bernadette

Monday, July 20, 2009

Law of Attraction part 11

Law of Attraction does not respond to your thoughts - it responds to how you feel about your thoughts.

You can think about it, wish for it, pray for it and visualize receiving a million dollars till you're blue in the face, but if deep inside your true feelings are that you don't really believe that it will happen - it wont happened .

If you do not feel wonderful most of the time, the Law of Attraction will deliver things, people, experiences that makes you feel not wonderful -most of the time.

So, do you think the law of attraction is working to you?

Bernadette

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Law of Attraction

Law of Attraction by Ester and Jerry Hicks


The author Ester and Jerry define Law of Attraction as a universal law that works on simple principle.

What is that principle?

That is , Like attracts like, what you focus on expands. If you put a lot of focus on something you want, you will attract. If you put a lot of focus on something you do not want (like being broke) you will attract it.

My understanding on their definition is . What you say is EXACTLY who and what you are.

So if you say you are poor, then you are. Because you said you are poor. You are then comfortable justifying your situation by whining and complaining.

However if you say you are rich, then you really are because when you say you are rich, you feel good, happy excited, that you can no longer wait for tomorrow to begin your steps to make it happen. That excitement will ignite you to do whatever it takes to attract angels, events, ideals, mentor, people, resources to assist you to your journey to the ocean of unlimited abundance and prosperity.

Can you share what you understand with the simple definition of the law of attraction?

Bernadette

My Show will make me RICH

HI,


My job is my show. My show will make me RICH.


How? Simple.

I set my mind that as collection representative, I am the host of my show. Because I am the host, I will do everything in my power to do the best I can. So when my computer and headset is on I think I am on the Camera and my customers are my daily special guest in the show.


The purpose of my show is to assist my special guest provide great service and excellent customer service. That thinking ignite be to bring the best to deal difficult customer with EASE.
So at the end of the day, when i turn off my computer and headset, I celebrate by saying. What an amazing day. I had fun in my GREAT show.

So how about you how do you deal with your job.


Bernadette

Thursday, July 16, 2009

My Job is my SHOW.

Hello,

Do you have challenges getting up early to get to your job? I know what and how you feel. WHY, Because I used to feel the same way. until one day I make a decision to make a shift.

I cannot change my job but I can change my outlook to my job.

I work as a collection representative. Most of the time people say. What a NASTY job talking to rude people everyday for 8 hours. Oh, you are right but I have no choice I need a Job and my company pays good money and benefits to give my family a decent life.

However, that was before because today everyday is a GREAT Day.

How, because I treat my job as my show. HOW IS THAT?

Ccome back tomorrow . I tell you more.

Bernadette

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Do you have rules to live by?

Hello,

Do you have rules to live by? What is it? Want to learn ?

I am presenting to you Giovanna GarciaImperfect Action is better than No Action.

Giovanna is a great speaker on taking ACTION. If you want to know more about her inspirations visit her at IMPERFECTACTION.COM

Here is her rules to live by .

Rules to live by
Posted: 14 Jul 2009 11:57 PM PDT

Rules
Rules for being human

1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it’s the only thing you are sure to keep for the rest of your life.

2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called life on planet earth. Every person or incident is the Universal Teacher.

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of experimentation. “Failures” are as much a part of the process as “success.”

4. A lesson is repeated until learned. It is presented to you in various forms until you learn it–then you can go on to the next lesson.

5. If you don’t learn easy lessons, they get harder. External problems are a precise reflection of your internal state. When you clear inner obstructions, your outside world changes. Pain is how the universe gets your attention.

6. You will know you’ve learned a lesson when your actions change. Wisdom is practice. A little of something is better than a lot of nothing.

7. “There” is no better than “here.” When your “there” becomes a “here” you will simply obtain another “there” that again looks better than “here.”

8. Others are only mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another unless it reflects something you love or hate in yourself.

9. Your life is up to you. Life provides the canvas: you do the painting. Take charge of your life–or someone else will.

10. You always get what you want. Your subconscious rightfully determines what energies, experiences, and people you attract–therefore, the only foolproof way to know what you want is to see what you have. There are no victims, only students.

11. There is no right or wrong, but there are consequences. Moralizing doesn’t help. Judgments only hold the patterns in place. Just do your best.

12. Your answers lie inside you. Children need guidance from others: as we mature, we trust our hearts, where the Laws of Spirit are written. You know more than you have heard or read or been told. All you need to do is to look, listen, and trust.

Dr. Cherie Carter-Scott (edited)

Live your life well, with whatever rules you have. Just live up to your best.

What are your rules?

Giovanna GarciaImperfect Action is better than No Action

See you tomorrow,

Bernadette

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Yesterday, today and tomorrow

Hello,

The Author, Edwin C. Bliss said,

YESTERDAY is a canceled check: FORGET IT. TOMORROW is a promissory note: DON"T count on it. TODAY is ready CASH: USE IT.

What do you understand by that?

Simple.

Yesterday is done. Don't spend your energy going back for it will never come back. Delete it so you can create space to welcome today. TODAY is the best time to use your resources otherwise you will lose it. Enjoy it while you have it. Concentrate on the NOW. Now is the best time and the only time to enjoy life. Don't save it for tomorrow for tomorrow will be another day.

See you tomorrow.

Bernadette

Monday, July 13, 2009

Live in the present

Hello,

When one door of happiness closes, another opens: but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened to us. By Helen Keller.

Helen Keller is saying that when one door closes, it signals that the universe has upgraded your door of happiness. All we need to do is to jump in. However most of the time we don't it. We do not appreciate because we refuse to get out of our comfort zone.

Let us embrace change, trust, move forward, live in the present and we will discover a new level of experience. A new door always brings opportunity to grow and new level of happiness and experience.

Do you have an experience that brings you opportunity in life.

Bernadette

Sunday, July 12, 2009

How do you differentiate passion from obsession?

Hello,

Here is Giovanna Garcia's article on Passion or obsession .

Have fun . Here it is .


Passion or Obsession?
Posted: 10 Jul 2009 11:50 PM PDT


Passion or Obession
Passion is one of the most important keys to success in any arena of life. When you have passion in your life you wake up excited about your day. You make the right decisions, you get more done in less time, and things flow for you. If you harness your passion, people will believe in you, trust in you, and want to support you. No greatness can happen without a person’s passion behind it. But what exactly is passion?

Passion is a love of something. It is a strong feeling of desire to achieve something. In a way, it is almost like an obsession. It guides your thinking, it dictates your logic, it motivates you, it propels you to continuously take action. You can’t put your passion down, you can’t wait to get up in the morning and pursue it. You can never get enough of it, and you would do it whether you got paid or not. It’s that special something…

That special something can’t be a material object, though. That’s the difference between passion and an unhealthy obsession. Passion is based around a goal, an internalized goal, a core value. When you participate in your passion, it gives you a sense of achievement and accomplishment.

An obsession is just wanting something really badly. For example, wanting the newest and hottest fashion items so badly that it dominates your thinking and dictates your actions is not about passion. If getting new shoes and handbags and outfits drives you and motivates you in your everyday actions, you are obsessed and that’s not good. On the other hand, loving fashion and wanting to do whatever you can to be around it, whether it be designing clothes, blogging about the newest products, starting your own retail outlet, or anything else: that is a passion. It’s a subtle difference, but an important one.

Your passion can’t be a desire for an object. It has to based around an internal goal, and it has to be something you determine for yourself. You shouldn’t “adopt” a passion because it’s trendy and popular. Your passion needs to be something that you genuinely feel strongly about. When you find and harness that genuine passion, you’ll have the drive to continuously pursue it, you’ll have the determination and the tenacity to forge on, and you will find a way to succeed because your motivation will push you toward your goals.

Passion is the underlying power beneath everything you do. Without it, you cannot find true success.

Giovanna GarciaImperfect Action is better than No Action



Now, how do you differentiate passion from obsession.

Bernadette

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Can you sell like Willie Revillame

Hello,

What can you say about Willie Revillame? Is he amazing.

Have you heard him sing? Do you agree with Rico J. Puno?

Well, as a Filipino like Willie, I have watched him grow. People buy his purpose and not the CD..... WHY IS THAT? When Willie sings, he sings what his heart desires. He is not singing to make money but he is singing to reach out. He wants to share the gift he has by making you happy.. He is very CLEAR with his PURPOSE. Willie knows that his PURPOSE on earth is to make you and every people in the WORLD live happy no matter what, where or who you are.

Anything that we do if it came from our heart, no one could discount it. Instead, the receiving heart will add value because the heart feel it, like it, enjoy it and will always forever continue to receive.

So, how about you, what is your purpose?

Bernadette

Friday, July 10, 2009

Why do people buy Willie Revillame CD?

Do you know Willie Revillame?

He is a TV host in the show WOWOWEE shown daily Monday to Saturday on The Filipino Channel ABS CBN. The show is shown in different countries being viewed by mostly Filipinos in the whole world.

He is very interesting in the sense that, his CD entitled Giling Giling and the latest CD Ikaw na nga rated no I is one of the hottest Cd in the market. Again, I repeat no one and continuously receiving Platinum Awards on the sale of his CD

Rico J. Puno, who is a real great and highly respected singer of all time often teased Willie Revillame in his show saying. I do not understand why people buy your CD. Are those people don't have a taste? Or are you a ghost singer?

Well whatever Rico J. Puno said, he ended up saying. I salute you my friend, people don't care how you sing, they don't listen to your voice, they buy your CD because they listen to your heart because people LOVE you.

Can you sell because people LOVE you. Tell me what you think.

Bernadette

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Perfect Leader

Hello,

Did you have the chance to read Giovanna's true story yesterday?

I first met Giovanna in Simi Valley in California during the Ellie Drake infomercial seminar in September 2008. The first time I saw her I was inspired with her philosophy of IMPERFECT ACTION IS BETTER THAN NO ACTION. I personally say she is a perfect person and a perfect leader. I say that because everyone makes mistakes no matter how good you are and no matter how hard we try. Then when we make mistakes we bet ourselves up. Then we get scarred top try again. When we refused to try again. we closing our opportunities to the unlimited abundance and prosperity that the universe is giving to us.

When I met her and saw on the stage, I was so impressed that I didn't took my eyes off from her. I watched all her movement, the way she talked and even when she was dancing during break. At that time, I realized I am not the worse as I think I was. I am just a perfect imperfect person who has all the right to live freely. I can do whatever I want without worrying if I am doing the perfect action or not. My imperfect action will lead me to where I want to be.

So now all I need to do is to keep moving towards my goals. It doesn't matter if it is the right action what matters is I am doing the action every single day. In every wrong action , there is always the clue to move to the right action.

With this, I would like to say THANK YOU GIOVANNA . To learn more about her, visit her at imperfectaction.com


Bernadette

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

A true story about an Angel in Uniform.

Hello,

I would like to share with you a true story from my best friend and business couch GIOVANNA GARCIA. I LOVE THIS STORY and I am sure you too will love it. If you want more stories like this visit Giovanna Garcia Imperfect Action is better than No Action @ her website Imperfectaction.com

Here is the story. Enjoy and have fun.

A true story about an Angel in Uniform.
Posted: 06 Jul 2009 11:38 PM PDT

Angel in Uniform
This is a family story my father told me about his mother, my grandmother. In 1949, my father had just returned home from the war. On every American highway you could see the soldiers in uniform hitchhiking home to their families, as was the custom at that time in America. Sadly, the thrill of his reunion with his family was soon overshadowed.
My grandmother became very ill and had to be hospitalized. It was her kidneys, and the doctors told my father that she needed a blood transfusion immediately or she would not live through the night. The problem was that Grandmother’s blood type was AB-, a very rare type even today, but even harder to get then because there were no blood banks or air flights to ship blood.
All the family members were typed, but not one member was a match. So the doctors gave the family no hope; my grandmother was dying. My father left the hospital in tears to gather up all the family members, so that everyone would get a chance to tell Grandmother Good-bye.
As my father was driving down the highway, he passed a soldier in uniform hitchhiking home to his family. Deep in grief, my father had no inclination at that moment to do a good deed. Yet it was almost as if something outside himself pulled him to a stop, and he waited as the stranger climbed into the car.
My father was too upset to even ask the soldier his name, but the soldier noticed my father’s tears right away and inquired about them. Through his tears, my father told this stranger that his mother was lying in a hospital dying because the doctors had been unable to locate her blood type, AB-, and if they did not locate her blood type before nightfall, she would surely die.
It got very quiet in the car. Then this unidentified soldier extended his hand out to my father, palm up. Resting in the palm of his hand were the dog tags from around his neck. The blood type on the tags was AB-. The soldier told my father to turn the car around and get him to the hospital.
My grandmother lived until 1996, 47 years later, and to this day no one in the family knows this soldier’s name. But my father has often wondered, was he a soldier or an angel in uniform?
Author Jeannie Ecke Sowell
Chicken Soup for the Mother’s Soul
What did you take away from Jeannie Ecke Sowell’s story?
Giovanna GarciaImperfect Action is better than No Action.

How did you like it? If you want more inspiring stories like this visit my best friend and business coauch Giovanna Garcia Imperfect Action is better than No Action @ her website Imperfectaction.com

Until Tomorrow.

Bernadette

Monday, July 6, 2009

Offer with Pride

Hello,

Jeff Miller didn't mind if Rafael Roxas keep rejecting him. It didn't bother him. He never felt offended. He is aware that every time RAfael Roxas said NO to him RAfael Roxas is rejecting to the UNLIMITED WEALTH he has been looking for over the years.

Jeff Miller never felt he is being turned down because he is VERY confident that he is offering a business opportunity that could make anyone RICH just like Rafael Roxas

Jeff Miller offered his Melaleuca business with PRIDE until Rafael Roxas ended up joining his Business Melaleuca.

Today, Rafael Roxas can now say I AM RICH. THANK YOU MELALEUCA.

See you tomorrow.

Bernadette

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Dont give up

Hello,

I admire Jeff Miller who consistently and kept calling Rafael Roxas offering his Company Melaleuca. Rafael Roxas rejected Jeff several times until he asked him to Stop calling and leave him alone. Yet in the end Rafael Roxas ended up Joining Melaleuca. Today Rafael Roxas is so thankful to Jeff Miller.

Jeff Miller helped Rafael Roxas life including the whole family. In Rafael Roxas CD release June 2009 he mentioned her mother is now living a life by design. His mom now own a nice house, a nice car and has money in the bank.

If Jeff give up on Rafael Roxas, maybe he is still out there working hard and broke.

What do you think?

Bernadette

Saturday, July 4, 2009

One more time

Hello,

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try one more time

By: Thomas Edison, 1847-1931Inventor and Entrepreneur.


Rafael Roxas, featured in Melaleuca Leadership in Action magazine June 2009 ranked # one again in the executive leadership. I have been reading and following up articles about him. His story is he has been in different business for almost 20 years like the age of Melaleuca. While he was on different business , Jeff Miller, the person who introduced Melaleuca to him called him almost every six offering Melaleuca to him but he kept rejecting him until Rafael get tired of Jeff Miller and said. Will you please stop calling me. Please leave me alone. However, Rafael was still not getting success in his previous Company, so he said I'm DONE. That is it. No more business.

Until one day he found himself calling Jeff Miller to give himself One more time. And at last he found the perfect business in Melaleuca. And now he is very successful and now enjoying the life he had been dreaming. And that is because he TRY ONE MORE TIME.

Rafael Roxas is such a huge INSPIRATION to me.

Till next time

Bernadette

Friday, July 3, 2009

Who did you appreciate lately?

Hello,

"Everyone wants to be appreciated, so if you appreciate someone, don't keep it a secret."
By Mary Kay Ash 1915-2001, Founder of Mary Kay Cosmetics

I received an email from a customer saying I was very helpful, professional and pleasant on the phone. I feel GREAT. That was only two simple sentence however that was worth more than a million joy that will last forever.

Who did you appreciate lately? NOW is the best time to spend a moment to appreciate someone who did nice to you regardless of how small or simple that act of kindness was.

If you haven't done it yet, do it now. Don't waste even a single second. Pick up the phone, sent email if that person is not at your side at this moment. Do everything in you power to appreciate everyone who deserves your appreciation. You could make a huge positive change to them. Who knows they have been long waiting for you.

Let me know. Get back to me so we can share to the universe the power of appreciation.

Bernadette

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

What do you do for a living?

Hello,

What do you do for a living? How long you been doing that? How much you make? Are you worth what you make.

I work as a Collection Representative. I do the job because I need money and that was the only choice I had at that time I need a job . They pay is great. I don't like it and I hate it . But that was yesterday. Because today, I grow and matured in this job with values worth more than a million.

Why is that? I talk to less than a hundred people everyday for 8 hrs. This people has different personality wherein I see myself in them. The more I see myself in other people, the more I am aware to make a decision to change for the good. The money I received for doing the job is Great but the values I learned from this job is worth millions.

Do you see values in your job.


Bernadette