Focus on your desire

"What you lack in talent can be made up with desire, hustle and giving 110% all the time."
-- Don Zimmer, Baseball Manager


Start with your desire. Ignite it and let it fire. That will keep you focus on what you really want. The how to make the desire happens will follow through and become unstoppable.

Concentrate on what you have. Think, believe and work on it everyday more than 100% . Develop your strengths and let it grow. How you can do better will come on your way. Do not think or talk about what you do not have.

Find your desire, start today with small action until it light up and burn that burning desire.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Clarity, Clarity, Clarity

As an accountant, let me picture clarity by preparing financial statement.

Clarity means knowing exactly what you want to accomplish. Let say, as an accountant, my goal is to prepare financial statements.

I am clear that, that is what I want. So to make it personally official to make a commitment to myself. I write it down , Put a deadline , specific time to get it. Then list what I need in the order of priority. Then post it to wherever I always see it. That will lovingly inspire, motivate and reinforce myself especially in times I don't feel like doing it.

However, if you really want what you do and you are very clear that that is what you want, you will always find peace, joy and eventually the time and place to get it done. And once you did it, even if you have to sacrifice tons of your happy hour, it is worth it and you will discover more exciting and happy hour is there stored for you.

There is always plenty of time and place to get started if you start today one step at a time and you will eventually create huge positive change in your life and successful career.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small.
















your sacrifice time.

Inspire others

Start with yourself with small action like . Say thank you as many and as often as you can. That would bring you so much joy that smiling and saying hi to others transforms that gratefulness from you to them.

A simple smile and hi could create joy, inspiration, motivation to push someone to work on their dreams. Your smile may be the one single push that someone is waiting for.

Small action is so quick and easy but it would somehow bring forever joy and determination to make decision to be happy everyday no matter what.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Secret to success

"Put your heart, mind, intellect and soul even to your smallest acts. This is the secret to success."
-- Swami Sivananda, Yoga Guru

Give your best, stay focus, be committed and expect to win. Pay attention even to the smallest details to deliver the best that you can and you discover the best in you.

Start today by doing small action and create huge difference along the way.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Move forward

"Always look at what you have left. Never look at what you have lost."
-- Robert Schuller, Clergyman


Lost things give us the pushed to get out of our comfort zone to search for excellence. No push, no pressure, no pressure, no action. no action , we remain the same and wish we were better.

Think of our lost as an inspiration to concentrate on what is left. Accept that losing is part of the journey. Relax focus on your purpose and keep moving forward. Enjoy the process. You may lost everything but you gain knowledge, experience and discover ideas to make things work or even better.

Start small today as you move forward and you will see huge positive change.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Are you influenced by other people's opinion

The author NAPOLEON HILL on his best selling book THINK AND GROW RICH pointed out that . OPINIONS are the cheapest commodity on earth.

Are you influenced by other peoples' opinion? If yes, NOW is the time to start keeping an attentive eye open for Gods counsel.


Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Pay your self first

Before you spend any amount received, save 1% every month to your saving account. As you moved forward, increase your saving with 2%. Then keep adding till you see your account growing.

Build your life. build your future. Start small. Start today. A small action will create huge positive change,

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small.

A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...

My high school friend Lourdes email this to me.

Here it goes. Read every line and you will absolutely enjoy, learn and will change your thinking.


A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...

You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again. A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a highfire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs,and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed themin a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.''Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, mother?'Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water.Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its insidebecame hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.'

Which are you?' she asked her daughter.

'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?

Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough witha stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstancethat brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity?

Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

You might want to send this message to those people who mean something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendship you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life.If you don't send it, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day withthis message!May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!

I expect you feel it and start living with it starting today with small actions until it become part of your new you . Remember, small action everyday will lead to huge positive change.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Dicipline

Discipline is doing what you need to do whether you feel like doing it or not. It is the time to lead oneself to do the right thing at the right time. This is where we remind ourselves of our goals so we can stay focus without feeling guilty.

Discipline requires courage and determination to hold on to our affirmation. No one can discipline oneself except when you made a decision to be disciplined

It is very challenging however once a decision is made, determination follows to make discipline a habit. Start today with small action and you will create a huge positive change in your life.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Design your life

"If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's. And guess what they might have planned for you? Not much."
-- Jim Rohn, Motivational Speaker

Design your life. You are on the driver's seat. Plan your trip. Where do you want to go. Follow whatever your heart desire to get where you want. If you don't someone will do it for you. Will you be in control of your trip or would you like others to control your life. If you design your life it will be on in frequency of what you want and not in frequency with what others want your life to be.

Make a decision. Start designing your life now and create positive change in the direction of your life.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Your Self Ideal

Your Self Ideal By Brian Tracy

The first part of your self-concept is your self-ideal. This is the ideal image or picture you have of yourself, as if you were already the very best person you could possibly be. Your self-ideal is made up of your wishes, hopes, dreams, goals, and fantasies about your perfect future life, combined with the qualities and virtues that you admire most in yourself and in other people. Your self-ideal is a composite of the very best person you could imagine yourself being, living the very best life you could possibly live.

To learn more about self ideal, visit Brian Tracy at http://www.briantracy.com Start learning today one step at a time everyday. Small action everyday starting today will create huge positive change.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

Clarity of purpose

There is one quality that one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants and a burning desire to achieve it. By Napoleon Hill.

Do you believe you can do it

"I don't think anything is unrealistic if you believe you can do it."
-- Mike Ditka, Football Coach

How to get what you want

See the things you want as already yours…Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, As already in your possession.”— Robert Collier

What you think is what you see and what you see belongs to you. Think and paint a picture in your mind what you want. Think in paper so you will always see it and feel that it is in your possession. Think , see and feel everyday until it becomes second nature. Once the feeling is so tight it will go into the frequency of your action to manifest what you want.

Start the process today. A small thing everyday will create huge positive change in your life

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

What do you say when the challenge gets painful

What do you say when the challenge gets painful.

do you say it is difficult but i will make it or i can't make it, it is difficult.

It is difficult but I will make it. When challenge is too painful, that is a sign that the challenge is about to end. Don't quit. Stay and stay focus. Concentrate on your goals. Remember your WHY"S, why in the first place you get started. Fed your mind with successful people who had been in through same challenges as you are. You are just an inch away to your goal.

However, most of the time people quit when they are in pain. No wonder very few people became rich and successful.

Make a decision, start small action daily. Set your your mind that you will accept and embrace challenge as part of the process to end up creating huge positive change by starting small.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating Huge Positive Change by Starting Small

which is valuable, tangible or intangible assets

Asset is something that has value. We have two kinds of asset: the tangible and the intangible. Tangible assets are things that you see like cash, car , house. These are items like cash, that if someone grab it from you, you lost possession to it. Intangible asset are assets that no one can take it away from you. These are your personal characteristics inside and outside our body like beautiful, education, integrity, honestly, good morals. Intangible assets are values that you can not buy anywhere. These are values that you learned and practice overtime. The more you learn the more you increased your values.

I personally invest in education and personality development. I strongly believe I can afford to lose all the tangibles but never my intangibles like integrity, honesty, discipline because once my value as a person is high enough, tangibles like cash, car and property will just come easily and effortlessly.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating huge positive change by starting small

Are you a master or a victim of change

Change creates importunity. Change means to make a shift from what you are today. Normally you may be feel discomfort . However, as you accept and embrace change lovingly you will eventually master change. Mastering change will give you to a peaceful life. You will eventually say that you feel like you are in heaven.

Whereas if you resist change and insist of staying where you are, you end up victim of change. You will live in hatred and bitterness.

So would you like to master change and live happily or be a victim and live desperate.

Start making change with one small step at a time. One small step will end up to a huge

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating huge positive change by starting small.

The need to Lead

The Need to Lead
Posted by Brian Tracy on Aug 5, 2009

The greatest need we have today, in every area, is for men and women to practice the values of integrity, discipline, responsibility, courage, and long time perspective, both as individuals and in their families. These are the key qualities of leadership.
Our society needs leaders at all levels who practice the principles that lead to long term-success. Especially, we need people in positions of authority and political power to support and encourage others, whose lives and work they influence, to develop character and resist the tendency to act expediently in ways that are harmful to themselves and others.
Everyone needs to take “The Values Pledge” to live by it and then encourage others to live by it. It is only the solid bulwark of character, based on values, virtues, long-term thinking and the accurate assessment of secondary consequences that can curb and mitigate the destructive influences and behavior of the E-Factor.


Brian Tracy is one of my favorite authors. I love reading his articles and I truly enjoy his articles. His articles is assisting me build my MILLIONAIRE'S INTANGIBLE BANK ACCOUNT. To learn more visit Brian Tracy at www.briantracy.com

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating huge positive change by starting small

what do you say when you make mistake

What do you say when you make mistake?


Do you say,

” I was wrong”

or

”It wasn’t my fault.”

When you say I WAS WRONG, that means you are taking responsibility. Taking responsibility means you humbly receive the opportunity to learn and take action to make it work and get better. You are receiving a seed of greatness that will bear great fruit. Great fruit that will give you reason to CELEBRATE.

When you say IT WASN'T MY FAULT. that means you are refusing your opportunity to learn to get better. Refusing to change to get better will give you same result that would lead you to disappointments and frustration, Then you end up blaming and complaining because you feel you are a VICTIM.

So, will you take responsibility and end up celebrating or run away and be a victim ?

It may be hard but I tell you if you start small today, you will create huge positive change.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating huge positive change by starting small.

Do you make a choice or take chance

"Choice, not chance, determines human destiny."
-- Robert W. Ellis

Choice is within our control. Chance is letting circumstances control us. We only have two choices, that is to determine our human destiny to get what we want or take chances .

I choose to control the direction of my destiny. I will design and dictate to the universe what I want. So that my thoughts and action will be on the frequency of my destiny.

If you take chances, chances you will lose control unless you are very lucky. So far there is no such thing as luck unless you make a choice to be lucky.

Now is the time to make a choice. Once you make a choice start small action to determine your destiny by starting small, one step at a time.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating huge positive change by starting small

Commitment vs promises

How do you differentiate the two.

A commitment is willingness to take responsibility no matter what it takes. A person who is committed never make excuses. He always find a way. He finds opportunity in every challenges and turn challenges to produce best result.

Promise is the act of saying to take responsibility if circumstances allow. A person make excuses to justify broken promise.

A winner mentality always make commitment while a loser always make promises.

Do you make commitment or make promises. It doesn't matter, what matter is if you make promises, now is the best time to start small action to shift the direction of promise to commitment.

Bernadette Velasquez

Creating huge positive change by starting small.

I am grateful for all of my problems

"I am grateful for all of my problems. After each one was overcome, I became stronger and more able to meet those that were still to come. I grew in all my difficulties."
-- J.C. Penney, businessman

Are you a contributor or Expectator

What is your position to your yourself, to your family or to your job.

Do you make commitment to yourself to be happy for what and who you are or do you expect others, events and or circumstances to make you happy?

Are you contributing your time and resources to your family or you expect your family to contribute theirs.

To your job, do you step forward to learn skills to be worth of salary increase do you expect your job to give you a raise.

To create a happy life, everything starts from us. To expect something we must firs do our part of starting Small to create huge positive change in our selves, family and in our job.

Have you think of doing that . Just a friendly self teaser.

Bernadette Velasquez

Creating huge positive change by starting small

The creation process

Ask. Ask and you shall received.

Believe. Believe that you already received it.

Received. Action.

Bernadette Velasquez
Creating a huge positive change by starting small